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Millennial Success Secret: Your Best Ideas Come From The Silence In Your Head

Outside of my music world, I don’t always have the same flow. When I’m up against deadlines, my instincts are to work harder, longer, and drop everything to get the tasks done. But no matter how much is accomplished, there’s always more to do.

4:36 AM.  I’m deliriously exhausted and panicked. Do I stay up and write an outline now? Music comes so naturally. Why can’t I have that same ease with everything else?

With music, I know that overthinking limits the process. Working endless hours is inefficient. There’s a deep intelligence that goes beyond logical and strategic thought that holds all the answers. It’s that same place which allows us to act with quick precision to handle a crisis we’ve never dealt with before or gives us a spontaneous solution to a nagging problem. This place of boundless insight never fails us. All we need to do is know that this intelligence exists and choose to partner with it.

4:45 AM.  I took a deep breath and closed my eyes until I felt connected to the endless space before thoughts… where I confidently know ideas are born, words flow, and understanding and communication happen effortlessly. This is where the music lives.

I felt calm and clear. In that silence, I understood that I had worked so hard for so long and that I was already prepared. From this place of confidence came two of the most engaging, interactive, and intelligent presentations I have ever given.

The secret to productivity, innovation, leadership, creativity, and communication is not to work oneself into the ground. It’s to stop. And listen. Everyone can find their own music. It’s in the silence.

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I am a storyteller, speaker, writer and connector. As the founder and CEO of GirlQuake, a Forbes Media contributor and host of the Forbes podcast, Mentoring Moments, I amplify the voices of females from multiple generations, redefining the notion of power. I’m the author of Their Roaring Thirties: Brutally Honest Career Talk From Women Who Beat The Youth Trap. I was the executive producer of the inaugural Forbes Women’s Summit. I’ve been at start-up, speed-up and stay #1 companies in both digital and traditional media. I serve on the boards of female-led organizations She’s the First and The Empowerment Plan. I’m a guest lecturer at Stanford University, an honorary professor at Glasgow Caledonian University, a Tribeca Disrupter Foundation Fellow, been named to numerous people to watch lists and have appeared on NBC Today, CBS Early Show, ABC News, CNN International and NPR. Follow me @deniserestauri